First of all, I’d like to thank you for your kind words in regards to my writing. I strive to be better every day and comments such as yours push me to go even further!

As to your comment, yes confidence is a huge contributing factor when it comes to a woman choosing a mate, but that alone isn’t enough in today’s world.

In fact, many of the guys that I mentioned at the start of my article had plenty of confidence - too much even! - yet that didn’t get them very far.

I wouldn’t say that “the shoe is on the other foot”, just that us guys have been getting away with way too much when it comes to the mating game while women have been forced to try so hard for generations.

Now that it’s our turn to display the same level of effort to be equally as attractive, not many of us seem to want to.

That’s all I was saying.

Media graduate, professional journalist and self-proclaimed Final Fantasy fanboy. Interests (and die-hard passions) include gaming and sports (mainly football).

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